I got divorced in my early twenties. While my ex had moved on, actually living with another woman before just the separation and custody arrangement was finalized, I just wasn’t ready to start dating again.
About a year later, I started to feel that empty space in my life, and I wanted romance and passion! But I had been married since I was barely legal, and I had no idea how to start dating as an adult.
I was desperate for affection, and blindingly horny after that long year of celibacy. So, I started sleeping around with guys I knew. The cute guy who made my lunch time burgers just right! That hottie barista at the coffee shop down the street. The cute and nerdy guy who sat next to me in my continuing education class. My brother’s best friend. But none of them lead to that deeper satisfaction that I was looking for. I told everyone who questioned me that I was a sexually liberated woman, or that I was in training to be a cougar. Truth be told, deep down inside, I really wanted a relationship!
But how was I supposed to get to know someone without getting to know them sexually, first? I still had no idea how to just date! I even tried opening an online dating profile, but I kept judging guys by how they looked, and if I thought they’d be a satisfying piece of ass. It’s almost impossible to just get to know someone – without the sexual distractions, or the overly expensive membership fees – online. I was telling my best friend about my frustrations, and he told me about phone dating.
He used it to connect with lots of local girls. He’d get to know them, flirt all day and night with someone new, and he was so much happier after the real life dates he experienced with the girls he met on the phone. His confidence was through the roof, and he just had that glow of someone who really felt valued for more than his looks or pocketbook! I just had to try it, and sure enough, I started dating much higher quality men – and, I got to enjoy all the flirtation and romance I was looking for – before I met Mr. Right! We’ve been blissfully wed for 5 years now, and it’s all thanks to phone dating!!!