Being a single girl who is into total power exchange is difficult to say the least. Going on dates starts to seem like a waste of time and effort. It’s hard to let someone know about your kinks, and they may not be into it anyway.
Sites geared toward BDSM can be very intimidating, and the whole “BOW DOWN TO ME SLAVE’ type of liberty-taking a lot of the so called Dominants on these type of sites turns me right off. Sigh. What’s a submissive girl to do?
The answer for me was phone sex chat lines! On phone sex chat, there are tons of guys and girls looking for all different kinds of naughty phone fun. The anonymity allows one to be free and open about what really turns them on. You can be honest and forthright about your secret kinks and fetishes, and if the person you have chosen to speak with isn’t into it, onto the next! In no time at all you will find a Dom, and the best part of all, if his domination style isn’t what you are looking for it’s easy to drop him and find another without any messy scene.
Adult chat is also a good way to explore your sexuality if you are in a relationship. Say you’re dating the perfect guy, but he is vanilla. With phone sex chat you can kick out the kinks without cheating or leading anyone on. It’s an awesome way to get those needs met without any worry of it affecting you negatively. You can get as nasty as you want free from judgment and ramification. Live your fantasy on phone sex chat; you will be glad you did.