At a first glance, you may believe that sobriety does not lead to phone sex but often times this could be opposite. When you are clear and confident in what you want during phone sex, being sober allows for your intentions to come to the gates of reality.
You can clearly communicate what you are looking and find great phone partners who have similar beliefs and lead similar lifestyles. It’s easy to connect with people and all you have to do is pick up the phone and give it a try.
You often will know within a matter of moments if the person you are speaking with is a good match for you. This is because you often can tell if the conversation and person keeps your interest and if you are on the same page or different page of what you want with a new phone friend. If the person you are speaking with is not a good match for you or your interests, there’s no need to worry, as there are always many people who reside in your area who eager to speak with someone like you. So if a person is just not your cup of tea or you have no interest in them, just say goodbye and move onto the next call.
You can meet many new phone friends and really cultivate amazing relationships, from relationships sexual in nature, friendships, and everything in between. It really doesn’t matter how obscure your interests or sexual fantasies are as you are likely to find open-minded individuals that may give your fantasies a go. So may as well try out phone dating as it is often free or cheap and then you can truly see for yourself if it’s right for you. Whether you don’t drink or do any drugs or do, you can find people that match you well and have intimate relationships that you can build over time.