If you’re new to the phone dating community, you may be wondering what to talk to others about. There are many ways to keep the conversation flowing on the chat lines.
Even if you’re nervous or shy, there are ways to ease your anxious feelings and learn about others and yourself through speaking to new people on the phone. This blog post will give you suggestions and tips on how to do so.
If you’re not sure what to speak about, it’s always a good idea to ask your phone pal open ended questions. This will not only open the conversation to have your phone friend share about self but also give you a break from talking and a way for you to show you care through active listening. By asking questions that call for stories, you can learn more about your phone pal and respond by sharing about yourself.
You can also make the conversation light by talking about your embarrassing moments or adding a joke or two in the chat. By doing so, you lighten the mood and if you can make your phone friend laugh that’s an excellent sign.
You can always ask your friend what he or she would like to talk about. You can take turns revealing the experiences of your lives or talk about a place you would like to visit if money were no problem. No matter what you speak about, to keep a conversation flowing naturally be sure to use active listening and responding skills because by doing so you not only make your phone friend feel heard and cared about, you also open up and talk and share with your phone friend. The chat lines are open 24/7 so you can talk with you phone friend or someone new whenever it works for you. If you and your phone friend are enjoying each other’s time, perhaps you should ask for a second phone date.