Talking dirty to girls is not something that comes to most people naturally. Each person learned their social skills over many years and through the situations they have been in, for better or for worse.
The reality is that no matter how talented you are at speaking, there are always ways to improve and get better. Talking dirty is one of the things that most people can improve on the most when it comes to sex. There are three main elements to dirty talk that can help get the excellent experience that most people strive for.
First, get to know what the person you are talking to likes. It is even great to speak to them about what kind of chat and dirty talk they are looking for at a particular time. Every day can put people in a different mood. Sometimes there is a desire for subtle and gentle dirty talk, and other times the spirit may be wanting dirty talk that is more direct and graphic. Sometimes, a partner might not be in the mood for dirty talk at all.
Secondly, learn different ways to say things and different ways to add suspense. A well-timed pause during the build-up to a sensual or dirty moment can make a woman wet. Practice reading erotic novels and stories (good, high rated ones). Think about things you want to do or you want others to do to you. Talk about not only actions but feelings. Letting someone know you like their moans can be a turn-on in itself, as an example.
Another way to improve dirty talk is knowing when to apply it. Read body language, verbal response, and other sounds. It can be beneficial to let a partner know how long you want your phone chat or sex session to last when you use a phone service like ours. Some people can go for multiple hours, and others like to keep their sex time limited to maybe 30 minutes to an hour.
Whether you are talking to a date you met on this phone dating service or are enjoying some private time with a phone sex friend you met; these three things can make your time an amazing one.