When she says she has a boyfriend, it’s important to respect her decision. Don’t try to get her to ditch her guy or badmouth him. It’s just going to make her feel resentful and uncomfortable.
It’s also worth remembering that people can be both a man and a woman, and that the gender of someone is not indicated by their pronouns.
She’s been acting shy around you
If she’s been acting shy around you, this could mean that she likes you. People often act shy around people that they like because it can make them nervous. If she’s been acting shy around you, she may be trying to signal that she wants you to approach her. She may also try to deter you by telling you that she has a boyfriend.
She may even start comparing you to her boyfriend. For example, she might mention how he doesn’t hold doors open for her or how she likes your sense of humor.
If you want to know whether she likes you, try easing her into conversation. Start by talking about low-stakes topics and see how she responds. She may take a while to adjust to speaking with you, but keep in mind that she’s probably just shy. You can also ask her if she’s single by saying something like “If you were my girlfriend, would I be your first choice?”.
She’s been talking a lot
After you’ve summoned up the courage to ask her out on a date, she starts talking up a storm. She’s been bringing up her hobbies, her interests, and the things that she loves to do these days.
If she’s chatting about her boyfriend a lot, it’s likely because she’s not interested in you taking things further. She may be using the ‘boyfriend’ line as a polite way to rebuff your advances without hurting your feelings too much.
Of course, you could always try and dig a little deeper into her relationship with her boyfriend. If you discover any skeletons, such as the fact that he doesn’t hold doors for her, you might be able to make your move more effectively. Just remember not to use this tactic too often, as it can come across as disingenuous and manipulative.
She’s been making eye contact with you
Eye contact can be a powerful indicator of a person’s feelings. If she has been looking at you a lot and holding your gaze for longer than usual it may mean that she is interested in you. If she is smiling or nodding she might be showing that she likes your company. However, if she is avoiding eye contact or looks away as soon as she notices you looking at her, it’s a good sign that she doesn’t want to talk to you.
If she starts complimenting you or your appearance frequently on social media, it’s a good sign that her interest is growing. However, be careful not to overdo it as this could make her feel uncomfortable or jealous.